4/10/2019

As we amplify our outline on developing Christ-like communication skills let’s focus on another destructive tendency to avoid described in Proverbs:  recklessness, or impulsiveness. 

A quick retort is often something we wish we could take back.  It often hurts someone.  Listen to these verses in Proverbs:  “Reckless words pierce like a sword!” (12:18).  “A harsh word stirs up anger” (15:1).  “Starting a quarrel is like breeching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out” (17:14).  It not only hurts others, it’s destructive to you.  “He who speaks rashly will come to ruin” (13:3).  “Do you see a man who speaks in haste, there is more hope for a fool than him” (29:20).

It’s not that you have bad intentions, but impulsiveness is often misunderstood by those taken by surprise.  Note 27:14, “If a man loudly blesses his neighbor in the morning it will be taken as a curse!”  And 29:5, “Whoever flatters his neighbor is spreading a net for his feet.” 

Humor is often associated with this destructive tendency.  26:18-19 warns, “Just as damaging as a mad man shooting a lethal weapon is someone who lies to a friend and then says, ‘I was only joking.’”  Be careful “If you argue a case with a neighbor, not to betray another man’s confidence.”   

So before you speak, be on your guard against the destructive tendency of recklessness.